Bakit May Mga Kadeteng Hindi Pa rin Makuntento Sa Iisa?

Ay grabe siya oh. Hehe

Guys, eto iyong tanong saakin ng isang reader natin, actually tanong ko rin iyan e.

Meron kasi talagang mga Kadete na hindi na nga Kevin, iba-iba pa ang sim kasi iba-iba ang girlfriends.

I’m totally being honest with you, meron talagang mga Kadete ang ganiyan… I know, kasi may mga Mistah si Sancho na ganiyan…

Naisip ko lang ha, ano ba talagang dahilan kung bakit ‘di sila makuntento sa iba? Eto iyong mga naisip ko, pero baka may gusto pa kayong idagdag:

1. Hindi Siya Masaya Sayo

Sige, oo, sabihin na nating jerk siya kasi naghahanap pa siya ng iba. Pero, isipin mo lang, kung masaya siya at kontento na sayo, bakit pa iyan maghahanap ng iba ‘di ba?

TIP: Huwag na huwag ikakasama ng loob mo na niloko ka niya, magpasalamat ka pa nga dahil nalaman mo agad, habang hindi pa kayo kinakasal, or i mean hindi pa kayo ganun ka-long term, or sorry kung long term na kayo, pero at least, hindi pa huli ang lahat. Nalaman mo agad na ganun siya. Edi hindi na madaragdagan iyong panahon na ginugugol mo para lang lokohin ka niya.

2. Hindi Ka Niya Mahal

Parehong bagay lang naman iyon sa itaas e. E hindi ka nga niya mahal e, bakit siya magko-commit sayo? Sorry harsh lang, pero kung ganitong lalaki ang mahahanap mo, wag ka nang magpatumpik-tumpik, hiwalayan mo na iyan girl. Kapag pinatagal mo pa iyan, hoping na magbago pa siya, pwes, para ka na lang din kumuha ng malaking bato na ipupukpok mo sa sarili mo. Sorry harsh lang.

3. Collect & Select

Guys parang ref magnet lang hahaha. Bakit naman ganun? Tinanong ko nga rin kay Sancho iyan, sabi niya, meron talagang ganiyan na tao, mag-iipon muna sila tapos para wide range ang choices na pagpipilian nila. Kapag ganito ang Boyfriend mo, uulitin ko uli, hiwalayan mo na iyan. Gusto mo bang maging choice ka na lang?

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4. Hindi Siya Committed

Wala lang talaga sa Vocabulary niya ang salitang commitment guys. Bakit ba kasi pinipilit pa nating i-sugarcoat diba? E hindi nga niya gusto sa isang relationship e. Or kung gusto man niya, baka gusto niya iyong open relationship, at kung willing ka rin na ganun ang maging set up niyo, dapat pag-usapan niyo at dapat may informed consent iyan. Hindi lang one way street.

5. Geographical Reason (Nakakaloka Itong Item Na ‘To)

Personally meron akong nakilala guys na isang Kadete, ang dami niyang ebababs na ka-textmate, ka-meet up. Every time na priv, iba-ibang babae ang kasama niya sa SM. Hindi ko na nga lang siya tinanong directly, pero parang nabanggit niya sa akin, “It won’t work anyway.” Kasi nga raw, taga Mindanao siya (guys, hindi lahat ganito, I mean hindi lahat ng taga-Mindanao ganito, pero iyong taong sinasabi ko, taga Agusan Del Norte iyan, totoo iyan ha, true story). 

Sabi niya saakin, “If  ever I had a girlfriend, I have to leave her anyway, kasi taga-South ako. Kung taga-Baguio siya or Luzon, that’s just it.” Para na lang niyang sinabi na girlfriend ka lang niya sa Luzon, or kapag nasa Luzon siya. Grabe! Kakaibang set of values ito guys.

6. Pampalipas Ng Oras

Gusto lang niyang may mag-entertain sa kaniya during his Cadetship Years sa Baguio. Believe it or not, meron talagang ganito.

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FINAL THOUGHTS: Marami pang dahilan kung bakit may mga ganitong Kadete, actually hindi naman related ito sa pagiging Kadete nila, nasa tao iyan. Huwag na huwag nating huhusgahan ang isang profession dahil sa gawa ng ilang tao, hehe. I mean, diba, maraming Kadete or I should say, majority sa mga Kadete ang nakikipag-relationship na talaga namang future na agad ang iniisip, iyong serious agad. Tignan niyo na lang si Sancho. Nakilala ko siya first priv niya right after maging Plebe, ngayong 2018, 8 years na kami. Hahaha. Kami pa rin naman? Ganoon din sa iba naming mga kakilala at mga Mistah niya, Upper Class, at Under Class. Minalas ka nga lang, doon pa talaga sa frog, iyon pa talaga ang nakilala mo. Pero huwag kang ma-sad. Napagdaanan ko rin iyan. Makikita mo rin at makikilala iyong Sancho ng buhay mo. Promise!

This is it for now dahil pang-night duty ako at wala pa akong tulog. LOL

Above photo from Miss Ron. Thanks again, Ron! Anyways, their photo is very unrelated to the topic, going strong sila sa kanilang relationship; photo was edited from the original photo contributed

Read More: 9 Signs Your Cadet Isn’t Serious About You

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Bakit Maraming Filipino Ang Naghihirap At Paano Mo Makokopya Ang Mga Milyonaryong Filipino? FIND OUT HERE

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Bakit Maraming Filipino Ang Naghihirap At Paano Mo Makokopya Ang Mga Milyonaryong Filipino

Ok, Ok, Just to get things straight, tinanong ko na rin sa sarili ko ‘yan, actually bata pa ako lagi ko na lang iyan tanong, at hindi ko naman talaga nakuha iyong sagot, except siguro sa pag-guide ng mga magulang ko at mga nakakatanda na, “Magtapos ka sa pag-aaral para gumanda ang buhay mo.”

A LITTLE BACKGROUND: Registered Nurse ako sa Pilipinas, at Licensed Teacher din ako, at nung 18 years old ako, pinatos ko rin iyong pag-exam ng Professional Civil Service Eligibility Exam, oo pumasa ako sa mga iyan, at sa iba-iba pang sandamakmak na Exams and Trainings with Certificate, lahat iyan napagdaanan ko para lang mahanap iyong “GREENER PASTURES.”

Natatawa nga ako sa sarili ko e, tanong ko lang, “Bakit ba kasi hindi ka na lang makuntento sa kung anong meron ka ngayon?” Guys, eto sagot ko, “Ayokong makuntento kasi alam ko may ibubuga pa ako.” 

Naisip mo rin ba iyon? Iyong tipong, bakit ka magpapaka-slave sa pagtatrabaho, kung may other ways naman para gumaan ng konti?

OFW ako, katulad ng maraming OFW, gusto rin magkaroon ng mas magandang buhay, or sabihin na nating maiahon ang family sa kahirapan, akala ko okay na, akala ko, lulusot na. Akala ko, kapag nag-OFW ako, magiging maginhawa na ang buhay namin. Hehehe Nakakaloka. Hindi pa pala. Wala rin lang pinagkaiba.

Eto lang kasi e, bakit ba nagtatrabaho ang mga tao? Hindi ba para kumita? Kumita para saan? Para magkaroon ng gagamitin na panggastos araw-araw, matustusan ang mga daily needs, and ‘pag may extra, magamit pambili ng luxury, o luho, at siyempre para gumanda ang buhay ng pamilya. Pero naisip ko, oo nga mahalaga ang family, gusto natin lagi na makasama sila, pero hindi naman kaya, kasi may work ‘di ba?

Parang napaka-weird lang, sabi ko. Gusto kong maging close sa family ko at ipadama sa kanila na importante sila saakin, pero bakit ko sila nilayuan? hahaha o bakit pag-uwi ko sa bahay, sila rin, wala? Kasi nasa trabaho o kaya naman, uuwi sila sa hapon/gabi na, then magkikita lang kami ilang oras at matutulog na, tapos kinabukasan, kakaripas na isa-isa sa kaniya-kaniyang mga trabaho… Then the cycle goes on…

Masaklap ‘di ba? Nakaka-relate ka ba?

Naisip ko, pinagpapalit ko ang time ko para sa pera. Iyong time na dapat sana kasama ko na lang si Mama at iyong kapatid ko, at siyempre si Sancho my loves. Pero hindi e. Hindi pa rin kaya.

Tapos isa pa, ang sakit lang sa bangs tanggapin na diktado na ng Boss ko iyong kinikita ko. Haha. Araw-araw, buwan-buwan ganon, hanggang sa na-realize ko, matanda na pala ako, at tumatanda na rin magulang ko… Pero hindi ko pa rin sila nakakasama na may quality. Imagine naman iyon. All your life, para kang naghahabol ng pera, then later on, magigising ka na lang, matanda ka na pala. Parang ganito sa picture sa baba:

Ayun… Hanggang sa may nagsabi sakin, “wag mo nang gawing complicated ang lahat ng bagay, kung ayaw mo iyong nangyayari sayo ngayon, pwede mong gawan iyan ng paraan.” Oo nga ano! Haha Ako naman iyong master ng buhay ko. Ako ang magsusulat kung anong next page na mangyayari sa akin. Salamat talaga sa kaibigan ng kapatid ko, at sobrang motivation…

Sinabi niya saakin, may way pa para maibsan iyong financial problems mo, iyong time freedom na gusto mo, kaya mo pang i-achieve. Hindi pa huli ang lahat.

Nung nakita ko ito guys, believe it or not, grab ako agad. Skeptic akong tao, pero pagdating sa usaping financial, lahat gusto kong subukan para dumating ang time na I don’t need to work. Na uuwi na rin ako sa wakas sa Pilipinas for good. So heto na nga, pinapanood saakin ng friend ko, iyong isang video na nagpabago ng buhay ko, nagbigay sakin ng motivation, at nagbigay sakin ng lakas ng loob para mangarap uli. Sorry kung ma-drama. Haha Ganun talaga ang buhay, may kasamang emotions iyan.

QUESTION: Bakit Maraming Filipino Ang Naghihirap, At Paano Mo Makokopya Ang Mga Milyonaryong Filipino?

Alam mo ba iyong sagot? Ako rin dati, hindi. Pero nung napanood ko iyong video, natauhan ako. May way pa! Hehe find out mo rin kung ano!

Anyways, sasabihin ko lang, na kapag hindi ka ready na maging masipag para sa pangarap mo, pag hindi ka open sa bagong ideas, hindi ito para sayo. Hehe

Pero kung gusto mo ng pagbabago sa buhay mo katulad ko, at gagawin mo ang lahat para lang piliting mag-meet ang both ends, pwes! Para sayo ‘to! hehe ‘di kita hina-hype, may paraan pa talaga para makahanap ng other sources of income, at kung katulad mo rin akong hindi pala-labas, at computer mo lang gusto mong kasama, baka eto na para sayo. Extrang income habang nag-iinternet ka. Perfect for me, perfect for you. Dream come true! Laptop-lifestyle venture.

Kung naku-curious ka na, heto panoorin mo iyong video na nag-eexplain,

Bakit Maraming Filipino Ang Naghihirap, At Paano Mo Makokopya Ang Mga Milyonaryong Filipino? 

WARNING: Kapag clinick mo ito, makikita mo ang picture ko! Hehe Makikita mo at malalaman mo kung sino si Kim Sancho. 😉 Pero please lang, keep it down, ‘wag masiyadong mag-expect, hindi ako si Miss Universe, or si Cat Woman, ordinaryong tao lang din ako katulad mo. Hehe

Kung gusto mo talaga, check mo. ‘Pag ayaw mo naman, okay lang iyan, tuloy lang natin ang bulahan dito sa PMG. Have a great day! I hope na-inspire kita today! Hehe

All the best,

Kim Sancho

How To Get Poor: 6 Easy Steps To Follow

DISCLAIMER: THE FOLLOWING ARTICLE HAS ADVERTISEMENTS BELOW. Please don’t read this if you’re not ready to get your mind blown.

Warning: Itong babasahin mo ay hango sa matinding research na ginawa sa Cardboard University.

Malalaman mo ang step by step at 100% sure way to become POOR as soon as possible.

Kahit kailan hindi ka aasenso o yayaman ‘pag sinunod mo ‘tong steps na ‘to.

Yung ibang tips dito ay galing pa sa librong Think and Grow Poor.

Kaya ‘pag sinunod mo itong mga steps na ’to, I guarantee na magkakaron ka ng time and financial slavery.

Let’s get started…

STEP 1 – Gumastos Ng Wagas

Pagkasahod na pagkasahod mo ganito gawin mo… Punta ka kagad sa mall!

Punta ka doon sa mga branded na section. Bilhin mo iyong pinaka -atest na design. Tapos bahala ka na sa buhay mo, bilhin mo lahat ng magugustuhan mo.

ADDITIONAL TIP: Make sure na gumamit ka ng malaking cart para mas marami kang mabili.

Tapos pag may sale sa SM, punta ka at bumili ka ng kung anu-anong bagay. Kahit hindi mo kailangan bilhin mo!

Tapos ‘pag may bagong cellphone model na lumabas, kahit bago pa cellphone mo, bilhin mo na kagad yung bago.

Di ba gusto mo na mapa-bilib mga tropa mo?

Kaya OK lang ‘yan, ubusin ang pera dahil mas masarap magyabang sa barkada. ;D

Gawin mong motto ay “Gumastos ng wagas na parang wala nang bukas”

STEP 2 – Wag Na Wag Mag-Save

YOLO! You Only Live Once. Kaya wag kang mag-i-ipon. Ang corny n’yan! Ang pag-iipon para lang ‘yan sa mga matatanda.

Ang ipunin mo resibo ng mga pinamimili mo. Mas OK yun!

Anong gagawin mo sa ipon eh mas masarap magka-iPhone ’di ba?

STEP 3 – Magpabaon Sa Utang

Oh yeah! Mangutang ka kahit sa kahit kanino. At wag lang basta utang.

Dapat yung utang na siguradong hindi mo kayang mabayaran.

Mag-apply ka sa lahat ng credit card providers. Tapos bili ka pa ng mga gadgets na isang beses mo lang gagamitin.

Mas maganda kung may kakilala kang bumbay. Utang ka din dun kasi mas malaki sila tumubo five-six.

STEP 4 – Wag Mag Plano

Always go with the flow. ‘Pag may biglaang gimik o kaya pag nagkayayaan sa outing go lang ng go. Another opportunity ‘to para ubusin ang pera mo.

Kailangan mong gamitin ang strategy na madalas gamitin ng mga unsuccessful at poor. Ang tawag dito sa strategy na ‘to ay impulsive buying.

Tandaan mo… Wag na wag kang magpa-plano dahil ang pagpa-plano… ‘yan ang pipigil sa paghihirap mo.

STEP 5 – Isang Income Source Lang

‘Wag ka din hahanap ng additional source of income. Mortal sin ‘yan ng pagiging poor.

Dapat isa lang ang source ng income mo. Para ‘pag sinuwerte ka at napatalsik ka sa trabaho… BOOOM sigurado ‘yun poor ka kaagad.

Baka mapasigaw ka pa ng OH YES! UNSUCCESS!

Pag may nakita kang kahit anong opportunity, siguraduhin mong maging close-minded ka ha?

Ang pagiging open minded ay para lang sa mga mayayaman.

Maniwala ka lang na lahat ng bagay ay IMPOSIBLE!

Walang posible sa mundong ‘to. Lahat ng nakikita mo fake lahat ‘yan OK?

STEP 6 – Sumama Ka Sa Mga Negative

Ito talaga and pinaka sikreto sa paghihirap!…

Makipag halubilo ka sa mga maling tao. Mga tao na may poor mindset at negative thinker.

Sila yung mga tao na tutulong sa’yo para maging very poor.

Ganito gawin mo… Hanap ka ng mga sumusunod:

– Tsimosa
– Sugarol
– Basagulero
– Batugan
– Lasingero

Tapos make sure na araw-araw ay napapalibutan ka nila.

Araw-araw mo silang kausapin at pakinggan.

Pumunta ka din ‘pag may mga gatherings sila. Tuald ng Tambayan sa kanto, Tsimisan sa gilid, Inuman sa tindahan at marami pang iba.

There you have it, How To Get POOR Quickly!!!

Napaka-effective nitong steps na ‘to dahil ito yung eksaktong ginawa ng 99% ng mga Pinoy.

Kaya sigurado ako sa effectiveness nito kung gusto mong maghirap.

Eh pano naman kung ang gusto mo eh maging mayaman?

Wag na ‘yun mahirap yun!

Pero simple lang gagawin mo,… kabaligtaran ng lahat ng mga ‘yan! 

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OFW Earns PhP 20K in 3 Weeks Just By Using The Internet: FIND OUT HERE!

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Earn Money While Browsing the Internet! Really?! Grabe!

Isa ka bang OFW katulad ko na naghahanap ng extra income kasi hindi sapat ang naipapadala mong remittance sa family mo? Tapos akala pa nila, ang sarap sarap ng buhay mo sa abroad, pero hindi nila alam nagtitiis ka lang sa Boss mo, at kahit meron kang sakit, pinipilit mong pumasok sa trabaho, para lang may maipadalang pera, dahil kaliwa’t kanan ang utang ng pamilya niyo.

Huwag kang mag-alala, hindi ka nag-iisa! Ako rin, isang OFW dito sa Japan. Para sa pangarap kong i-ahon ang pamilya ko sa hirap, naninilbihan dito sa ibang bayan, kahit gaano kahirap, tinitiis ko para makapag-provide lang.

Sa dinami-daming utang ang kaylangang bayaran, hindi ko na alam kung anong gagwin ko, kung saan ako kukuha, kasi limitado lang din naman ang income ko e, siyempre, empleyado, you are being paid by the hours you work, diktado na ng Boss mo ang income mo. Ang saklap lang ‘di ba?!

Buti na lang nakita ko itong magandang oportunidad para kumita ng extra, kapag wala akong duty, o wala akong pasok, at kahit galing sa trabaho, gamit lang ang internet sa apartment ko, kumikita na rin ako gamit ang system na ipinakilala sa akin, buti na lang, nagtiwala lang ako at grinab ko na agad itong chance na ‘to.

Sobrang gandang timing, sana, kung binabasa mo ito ngayon, pag-aralan mo baka ito na ang sagot sa mga problemang pangpinansyal mo. 🙂

Hope to hear from you soon!

~Kim Sancho

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Dearest Kaydet Girl: If He Cheats On You, You Deserve Someone Better!

“Everyone, at some point in their lives, wakes up in the middle of the night with the feeling that they are all alone in the world, and that nobody loves them now and that nobody will ever love them, and that they will never have a decent night’s sleep again and will spend their lives wandering blearily around a loveless landscape, hoping desperately that their circumstances will improve, but suspecting, in their heart of hearts, that they will remain unloved forever. The best thing to do in these circumstances is to wake somebody else up, so that they can feel this way, too.”
Lemony Snicket, Horseradish: Bitter Truths You Can’t Avoid

(2018/1/9) I am writing this right now because earlier this morning, a Follower of PMG messaged me and was asking for pieces of advice. I don’t know if you are reading this, but I hope you will, sometime soon.

To give you a little background, she “was” a Kaydet Girl; she just recently ended the relationship with her Cadet Boyfriend, because she found out he was pursuing another girl.

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Sad, right? But actually, even if you think it is sad, that you’ve broken things up with the person you love, I say, you are actually beyond blessed.

Why?

Just imagine yourself with that kind of person. He already has a Girlfriend, but still pursues other women, what a horrible man! I commend you for ending it with him because at some point you will realize, you don’t deserve that kind of treatment, after all of your love and sincerity. What if you’ve forgiven him and accepted him, anyway? Chances are, he will do it again. Believe it or not, nagawa na niya dati, magagawa niya uli (He has done it before, he will do it again). I’ve read a lot of books; met a lot of people; heard a lot of stories; and one thing I observed from cheaters: forgive me from saying this, once a cheater, always a cheater. Again, I’m so sorry for saying this. (Please don’t get me wrong, some of them really changed, but majority or almost all of those people I know who cheated from their partners, actually did it again, and this time, to the one he first cheated on his girlfriend with.)

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TO ALL THE GIRLS WHO WERE CHEATED ON, and TO YOU, BELOVED PMG READER: You may have heard this a lot of times, but let me say it again, “It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Yes, I know, it could hurt so much you couldn’t almost feel your heartbeat; neither will you know you are still alive because you are only floating, nor you couldn’t see you are actually existing because all you think of, no matter how much you try to forget, is that throbbing pain you feel from the moment you wake up, not to mention every waking moment until you luckily fall asleep. I know it’s hard. But remember, ONE DAY AT A TIME. I’m telling you, it’s time to let go. One day, this will all be a memory, and you’ll be just fine. Take that deepest breath, and move on. It’s time.

TO ALL THE CHEATERS, and TO YOU CADET: If you’re going to cheat, you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship. Grow up and treat people like people instead of tools in your selfish ego workshop.

I always thought there was something romantic about fighting for someone. About winning them back, eventual happiness. But as I sit here with stones in my chest, where hope used to lie, I have come to the realization that there is nothing lovely about having to continuously convince someone to love you. SL via WordPorn

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Earn Money While Browsing Facebook! Really?!

What if I told you this one secret that 97% of all the Filipino FB users doesn’t know of?

What if this secret will help you kiss your money problems good bye?

What if I told you, you don’t have to submit any resume, or do any tedious and awkward interviews just to be told, “We will call you”?

And what if I told you, you only need to use the Internet or browse the social media in order for you to earn?

What if I told you, you could do this just by using Facebook, Instagram, Twitter (and other social media platforms) and all you need to have is your phone to start? And you can do this during your free time! Yes! This is a dream come true! Earning money at the very comfort of your own home!

Imagine yourself living a day without any financial problem, because when you do this thing, all your money problems will fade. Imagine yourself traveling while still earning. With the click of your fingertips, I promise you can do this! If you are a social media active user, I promise you will benefit from this!

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Good luck on your journey to your success!

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The Person Behind Proud Military Girl

Hello, there!

You might be reading this because you want to know who Kim is, or who owns this page/blog. Lol I’m sorry to tell you, but I think this is not the right time to reveal who owns this blog. First I made an alternate account (which I might have used to add you as my friend on Facebook because I know/I have a feeling you belong to the Military World). This alternate account I named Kim is not my real FB account, I just use it to navigate to publishing tools of FB, and Kim is not my real name. I just used this name because it was how my late Dad called my youngest sibling (I used it because I want to commemorate my late Father.)

Why PMG? I know right. Lol. First of all, I am a girlfriend of a Junior Officer who graduated from the Philippine Military Academy. Some of you might know something about me, etc. But I want to keep my real identity privately because I want to be “not biased” when I write my articles.

Someone asked me why can’t I tell my real name, “Are you hiding something?” Lol the answer is: I am not. I just want to be private kasi baka sumikat ako and mawalan ng kabuluhan lahat ng meaning ng mga sinusulat ko, maging tungkol lahat saakin, the fact is I am writing generally, ayokong maging subjective lahat ng mga articles dito when I told you who I was. I want to write things regarding military love stories, majority comes from my own thoughts, but these thoughts, I think might be useful to others who also belong to my world.

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But, Why?

Being in a military relationship (especially when we started dating, he was then a Cadet) was tough. I don’t know who to turn to. I’m not really sure my civilian friends understand completely what I tell them, and I cannot hide the fact that I’m intimidated by Senior Officers’ girlfriends because , one, they are “upperclass,” two, I might be “not interested enough” to be a part of the club. lol (my melancholic side of me, esp when I was younger!)

Later on I met people who belong to the same crowd (they aren’t scary at all haha in fact they became my closest friends), some of them pursued the military marriage, some of them drifted from the military relationship, or I say, have broken up with their then-Cadet Boyfriends, but we remained in tact.

I’ve experienced a lot of emotions from this “military girlfriend” experience from Cadetship to Deployment until First Promotion etc. With this, I have a vision to create something useful to other “beginners” who are clueless kung anong pinapasok nila. Lol. I want to tell the (younger) Ladies, (who once was me) that, it’s going to be fine, we have each other.

I know this is a journey. Military life is a journey, so while I’m here fighting the unknown battles of being the woman behind my brave Soldier, I also would want to find inspiration to those who made it, to those Upperclassmen and Upperclass Ma’am who have the reality I once dreamt of, and continue dreaming—to finally be with the one I love, not the Soldier, but the man I decided to love since Day 1. I know we are just starting with our relationship, but looking at the Seniors who are (still) happily married and might now be traveling the world or rearing their grandchildren (after their Soldier Husband’s Service to our Beloved Country has been paid—by their time, by their life) makes me feel inspired.

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This blog was made out of courage of wanting to meet new people, newbies or veterans from the “Military Relationship,” I know we are the chosen few, but I know we speak tales of courage and patriotism being chosen in this precious “field.”

PMG is not just about me, it’s about every person who belongs to the Military Relationship looking for love and belongingness they cannot find from their reach. This is not just a story, but this is a “book.” The “book” which contains rare love stories from different walks of life which happened to be coloured in camouflage.

Welcome to PMG! This is your story. It is yours. I’m giving it to you.

To those who belong to the “Ladies” rank, the Kaydet Girls, the Officers’ Girls the Officers’ Wives, the Soldier’s Girlfriends, the Soldier’s Wives, I just want you to know, that YOU ARE NOT FORGOTTEN. We are the bravest of all the ranks they could find in the Military Service, because we are our Soldiers’ sounding board, their tough wall, their greatest dream, and their greatest success.

To our Soldiers, Kudos to all of you! We know how much you could sacrifice your life for our fellow countrymen, how much more would you sacrifice for us? We love you so much, more than you’ll ever know, more than you could ever imagine. If only one statement could be used to summarize what we really wanted in life, it would be this statement: “I want to hold your hand when we’re 80, and say we made it.”

***This page is owned by a private individual. Any views or opinion regarding the Philippine Military Academy, Armmed Forces of the Philippines, or the Philippine Soldiers are own judgment of the writer. This page does not represent any entity or institution named above, unless otherwise stated.***

 

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7 Things I Want To Give Up This Year

“It’s the oldest story in the world. One day, you’re 17 and you’re planning for someday. And then quietly without you ever really noticing it, SOMEDAY is TODAY. And then SOMEDAY is YESTERDAY. And this is your life.” -Anonymous

At some point in your life you will realize there are a lot of unnecessary things you do that you just want to buckle under your sheets now that you know better. You realized you don’t need these things or become a better version of yourself, that’s why you plan to make a list of things which you promise not to do anymore.

Things I want To Give Up Now That I’m A Year Wiser

1. EXCESSIVE TALKING (ME-&-MY-BIG-MOUTH SITUATIONS)

Admit it or not, when you are so happy you turn your opinion or “impression” knob so high that whatever you see, you say something about it. Not necessarily a needed suggestion, but it’s only your “mere” thoughts. However, when you get wiser you realize that there are boundaries you need to safeguard, for others not to get hurt or upset. Hence, you want to become more of a “listening” kind of person than being the talkative one.

2. REGRETTING TOO MUCH

You are not an ordinary person if you don’t have bones hidden in your closet that you want to bury with the past. However, when you regret that too often, that is unhealthy. Remember, don’t sacrifice your future because of your past. People make mistakes. If you have any regretful moment in your life, remember that it happened for a purpose. Forgive yourself, and move on.

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3. UNREASONABLE SPENDING

Spending money like water is nothing but an ordinary scene which you can observe in most individuals, who just started earning their own money. It is given that you should also spend your hard-earned money in your wants; however, when you spend it too much and too often, it’s a different story.
 Satisfying yourself by buying that watch you really wish to have is different from buying a signature bag this month, after having bought a different one last month. That is already unreasonable spending. As you mature, you should realize the importance of every cent you earn, so instead of buying a lot of “wants” you should think of saving money for the future or at least for the rainy days.

4. TRUSTING TOO MUCH

Being one in the minority of your organizational chart, you often tend to be agreeable with everything your colleagues will tell you, because you want harmony in your work. However, at some point you will notice that they are already defiling your kindness, or worse is you got into trouble because your colleagues used you as their scapegoat. This time, you want to be more cautious.

Read More: Old Ways Won’t Open New Doors: 2018 Goals

5. UNHELPFUL COMPLAINING

When you were younger, you were used to getting what you want or letting others do what you need to do. So when you start your career, you sometimes forget that you were only starting as a novice. Hence, you tend to complain when people will try to oblige you to do something you thought would be out of your “job description.” Sometimes, it really happens. However, just remember that the more tasks they will impose on you, the better you’ll get in your job; because you will be exposed to small errands happening in your company. Remember, small things make great things. Soon enough, you will swim in the mainstream. So stop complaining, instead, ask for more and initiate.

6. GOSSIP MONGERING

This happens everywhere. Remember, there’s a reason why people talk behind someone else’s back; it means he is ahead of them. Don’t be that kind of person who starts a conversation to sabotage or mock someone’s career or reputation. You’re better than that.

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A lot of problems in this world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of about each other.

7. SAYING NO TOO OFTEN

Sometimes, when you become more cautious not to fail or make mistakes, you often say NO to all the possibilities life has to offer. Common, turn away from that attitude; because the best way to learn is by failing and actually experiencing things. You were born not to be perfect, you were born to experience life.

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FINAL THOUGHTS
Life’s greatest lessons are learned as you grow up. Not necessarily by age, but by decision. Growing old is different from growing up. While you are busy building your tangible assets, you sometimes forget to build your assets coming from within. Remember, they are also the building blocks of your future.

“The hardest part about growing up, is letting go of what you were used to; and moving on with something you’re not.” -Anonymous

Now, it’s your turn, what is it that you want to give up this 2018? Comments are encouraged below. Feel free! 🙂

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Old Ways Won’t Open New Doors: 2018 GOALS

Last year, on my birthday, I started to make my own list of “new” year’s resolution to guide me through another year of my life, somehow, I realized that things which you are really committed to do won’t take a short time to happen or manifest in your life, so I kind of reviewed my birthday resolution list and make them into my new year’s resolution.

Another year has passed again, and as we come to realize that we are not “getting any younger,” we start to ask ourselves questions like, “what happened to you?” “Have you accomplished your goals?” Did you enjoy your 20’s? Have you had a productive 2017?”  Actually, I have mixed emotions regarding the new year. Nevertheless, 

I realized it isn’t too late to start all over again. Years from now when I look back, I want to remember this day when finally I realized I should give priority to improving myself, and how I could be of help to others, or at least not to be other’s baggage.

This year, I want to free myself of hate or of negativities. Life is too short to keep grudge or to argue with someone, or to be impatient. Life should be fun, and should be full of enthusiasm.

2018 Goals:



**Good relationship with Mom

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve been super close to my Dad, but when my Dad passed away, even though I haven’t come to my full recovery, yet, I realized I still have one parent, equally deserving of my love and attention, who is my Mom. I think everybody should have a good relationship with their Moms. She is the one who brought you into this world. Thanks to her this world will never be the same again because of a bright and awesome person she delivered when you were born. Don’t let the day pass without calling her or making sure if she’s ok. Ok?

Dear Mom, I love you.

 

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**Good relationship with the Sib

Your siblings are your own flesh and blood, you shouldn’t argue with them long before you knew you passed their birthday without greeting them or without making them feel loved. Their failures are yours, too, so make sure you exist in their lives no matter how difficult it is to call from abroad to know if they’re doing well, or ask if they’ve visited your folks already this month.

**Unwavering Faith

When you get to be on your own, you’ll realize the Divine Intervention guiding you through every step. At times you may feel that you are alone, but thanks to the Lord, He has never left us. There are times, all you can say is, “It’s You and  me again, God! Please take care of me and never leave my side.” That’s the time you’ll know you have strengthen your faith ever.

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** Long-lasting friendships

You may have all drifted apart, some got married and some have kids, some went to work abroad, some may remained busy in school to pursue their postgrad studies, but no matter how many times your priorities change, wherever life takes you, if a person is opt to be in your life, they will remain. You will find ways to reach each other or to get connected. You might be miles apart but your love and care for each other never change. You know you’ve lost some people along the way, some might be your best friends, but those who remained despite of it all, are your true friends. Keep them wherever you’ll go.


**Healthy Habits

Admit it or not, you are not getting any younger. It’s better to think ahead about your health, because let me say it, health is wealth. True enough, prevention is better than cure. As early as your mid20’s you should already be taking care of your health. You should start to plan healthy activities like 30min jogging or brisk walking at least twice a week; or to eat those vegetables which you’ve been avoiding since you were a kid… It’s up to you, as long as you know that chips in the morning, chips in the afternoon, and chips for dinner is in fact, unhealthy. Remember, you don’t want that your savings will go to your medication in the future just because you were taking your health for granted right now.

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**Peaceful coexistence with seemingly not-so-kind people

You can’t please everybody, you know that. So better accept that. No matter how you crash with someone, because of their personality, or bad deeds, you should learn to let small things go. Life should be spent being happy, not being angry to someone nor gossiping about them, either. It isn’t worth your precious time after all so keep that mouth shut and replace it with a smile. Science proves that silence and a genuine smile reduce fight significantly than confrontation. Remember to choose your battles.



**Profitable Hobby

Don’t get me wrong when I say, “profitable.” What I mean is beneficial or adds value to your life or to your own improvement. It’s okay if you are a KPop fan, but you know that there’s a thin line between admiration and addiction—you know it’s too much if you see yourself lying on your couch or wallowing on your bed with your favorite series on, without washing last night’s dishes, or haven’t even washed your 2week old might-have-been-rotting-already laundry. Before you know it, even your social life will suffer. I know, because I’ve been there. LOL




**Saving for the future, and thinking about your retirement

Yes as early as now. The best time to save money is when you have some. I couldn’t agree more! This is the right time to save for your future, and even think about your retirement plans. When you talk about investment, they say, the name of the game is time. You have to make money out of time just like what you are doing during employment. They exchange money for their hours of work (guilty!). Start now or forever regret in silence! The name of the game is time!

I make myself rich by making my wants few. Henry David Thoreau

**The Art of Deadma

Don’t sweat the small things. I’ll say it again, life is short. Your life is passing by before your eyes but you’re busy worrying about what your workmate forgot to do (which she must’ve supposed to do during her shift) which made you do it because her shift has ended, and you were to change her. OhMy. This is too much. God gives us an opportunity to give our best or to see the beautiful things He made for us to discover everyday. When you feel you will get mad, count from 1-10 and take 3 deep breaths, and move on. Give people benefit of the doubt, and forgive them. Remember everyone has been hurt, has lost something, or has been disappointed, not just you. Let go and let God, forgive people and your load will be lighter, I promise.



FINAL THOUGHTS 
If you are reading this, you might be someone who likes to read stuff on how to improve themselves, who is from their 20’s or someone who comes from the 30’s group who wants to assess themselves, if you really got it great before you turned 30. Whoever you are, whatever you do, remember, LIFE IS SHORT. Be forgiving, loving, generous, and understanding. Every person is fighting a battle you know nothing about so better be kind to every soul you meet. Not everything is centerred to you. The earth doesn’t revolve around your own axis, and remember that the place where your rights stop, the rights of others start.

Before you act, listen.

Before you react, think,

Before you spend, earn.

Before you criticize, wait.

Before you pray, forgive.

Before you quit, try.

-Ernest Hemingway

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Top 10 Most Read Articles of 2017

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Once again, we were given another year to “get it right,” and we thank the Lord for giving us another life to live. But before we  go ahead and start the new year head on, I would like to reminisce the past year with you.

02 August 2017 was the date PMG FB Page was created, and from then on, I was with you all along, and for that, I personally THANK YOU! Thank you for your unending messages, your valuable comments and your shares!

So here are the Top 10 Most Read Articles of PMG from its 655 Followers! Again, thank  you so much for without you, PMG will not be possible!

TOP 10

How My Soldier BF Got Over His Loneliness After I Went Abroad

A will tell you a little background. But, if you are a follower of PMG/Proud Military Girl, you will follow through this post. But why in the first place I left him for a “greener pasture?” Actually, it didn’t just happen.

I told you in my previous post, “10+ Things To Do While Waiting For His R&R” that one of the deepest dents we had in our relationship was his first assignment.  During his Cadetship, and his month-long vacation after Graduation, I was there, and then came his deployment. He was brought to the South super far from me! First assignment, Mindanao. Typical area where Luzon Soldiers were being  deployed. I was really devastated. CONTINUE READING

TOP 9

9 Reasons Being A Military Spouse Is The Toughest Job In The Military

“It’s not enough that we do our best; sometimes we have to do what is required.” -Winston Churchill

A military wife goes through a lot of things but chooses to keep it to herself because she doesn’t want to bother her family or friends, after deciding to marry the love of her life, who happens to be in the military. That’s why, those emotions and thoughts were only kept unsaid and remained as secrets that only those who go through it could understand. Nevertheless, here are some of the things which justify why being a military spouse is the toughest job in the military. CONTINUE READING

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TOP 8

7 Life Hacks I’ve Learned From My Soldier

A part of being with someone means learning their ways or adapting their own thinking and somehow, without intention, you tend to apply it in your own day-to-day life.

I’ve been in a relationship with an MIU (man in uniform: then-Cadet/Soldier) for almost 8 years, and I can say, a lot of his own “ideals” in life, I tend to actually adapt into my own life.

He is a Soldier, generally, we could conclude that he should be protective and strict, yes protective, and a little bit strict at times, and since we are soon to build a family of our own–a Military Family at that, he tends to be so heedful about the values we cultivate as a couple. CONTINUE READING

TOP 7

6 Reasons Every Military Wife/Gf Should Visit The ‘Camp’

“Behind every strong soldier, there is a strong woman, who stands behind him, supports him, and loves him with all her heart.” -Anonymous

Most of the military women especially spouses have formed the habit of staying at home. They wait for their Soldier knocking by their house’s doorstep, and some divert their longing and focus their attention to take care of their kids or manage the house. But this habit of not visiting your military partner in his work area doesn’t usually help the relationship grow, sometimes, it leads to future gap or misunderstanding.

After having asked military spouses who stayed stunning even after giving birth, and from collected experiences of awesome military girlfriends, and Officers’ Girls, here are some of the many reasons why every Military Wife/Gf should visit their man in the Camp. CONTINUE READING

TOP 6

8 Things Only A Military Wife/Girlfriend Will Understand

When you are in a military relationship, chances are, you are always being asked by your friends what it really feels like loving someone who is a thousand miles away from you, and chances are, no matter how you explain your thoughts and feelings to them, they will never understand you, unless they’ll experience it firsthand.

In behalf of the minority, and representing the “silent” background of the strife, allow me to share with you this reality, and what it really feels like loving a Soldier. CONTINUE READING

TOP 5

9 Warning Signs Your Cadet Isn’t Serious About You

This is a response to our reader who wants to know if this certain Cadet is really serious about her

I’m not an advocate for busting someone or anything doing negative stuff just to prove a point, but this time, for the sake of our reader, I want to talk about this topic

I have a lot of thoughts about this, because, I know a lot of ladies who were brought to sudden heartbreak because the man they think were serious about them, were actually just fooling around. CONTINUE READING

 TOP 4

IMMEDIATELY: This Word I Wouldn’t Want To Hear Before

Once and for all I want to answer all our family’s and friends’ question, “Bakit hindi pa kayo nagpapakasal?”

Natatawa ako kasi lagi na lang ganito ang tanong saamin ng mga friends namin lalo na ang mga pamilya namin…

Bakit nga ba? CONTINUE READING

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TOP 3

9 Cute But Annoying Things Your Cadet BF Tells You

1.

Situation: Pagkatapos niyong kumain at nakaupo pa kayo sa table kung saan kayo kumain, say, sa food court or any other restaurants, tapos ikaw: bigla kang naglabas ng mirror kasi titignan mo lang naman kung meron kang dumi sa mukha or ngipin… sasabihin niya, “My, hindi dito ang tamang place para magmake-up, ‘dun ka dapat sa sink.”

2.

Everytime na kakain ka ng certain fruit, like saging, sasabihin niya, “Alam mo ba My, tinuruan kaming kumain ng ganyan in a formal way, parang ganito ‘ata iyon.” Tapos kukunin niya iyong knife, itatry niyang i-fruit ninja iyong saging, mula sa balat, hanggang sa magiging bite size na lang. Hahaha omg

3.

Ganun din ‘pag kumain kayo ng crab. Haha CONTINUE READING

TOP 2

Memoirs of A Kaydet Girl

This article was originally published in The Corps Magazine, the Philippine Military Academy’s Cadet Corps Magazine, Alumni Issue 2011. Original title: “Memoirs of A Weekend Girlfriend.”

*****

“Nakauwi ka na ba? Musta pala iyong pinanood mong movie?”

These were the last words he sent me through SMS. It was only 2030H then and it was Saturday. It’s the 30th day of October to be exact. I thought he just fell asleep because of the exasperating activities he is doing habitually inside the academy. After an hour, I texted him again, saying,

“Sleep tight, antukin ka talga. Nga pala, wag kang masyadong malungkot dyan ah kahit mag-isa ka sa barracks. Nand2 lang ako sana hindi mo iyon maklimutan! Good night, my Indian! ^^”

Waking up from nowhere from one of my midnight sleep-awakening episodes during that night, I reached out for my cellphone, expecting a message from him. Nothing. So I just continued my sleep and thought that maybe he was just back from the routine of logging in the cellphone and so much of that what-have-you’s inside.
October 31, November 1, 2, nothing… 4 days… 5 days… 6 days… still, there’s no text from my beloved Cadet. CONTINUE READING

TOP 1

Yes, well, if you are a Follower of PMG, you know very well who Cadet J is! And yes, he topped off all the articles from PMG’s 2017 posts! Imagine! Almost earned 12,000 views! Here’s our Top 1 ***DRUM ROLL***

PMG Notes: This story was contributed by a former Cadet (now an Army Officer), whose love for his girlfriend is unsurmountable, he has to immortalize their story LOL. Itago na lang daw natin siya sa pangalang Cadet J, isa raw siyang simple at mapagmahal na nilalang. Ehem. Actually guys, hindi lang siya basta-bastang Cadet. He graduated top in his class, biruin niyo, hindi lang talaga brawn and brains ang mga Cadets natin, meron din silang big love na nakatago sa dibdib nila (hindi lang halata hehe!). In fairness nakakakilig ang kwento niya. This story is from a Cadet’s POV, first in PMG. Thanks, Cadet J, for trusting PMG!

LOVE OF A LIFETIME

CHAPTER 1: Find Out

September 17, 2010, Friday

Matapos ang limang araw na bagbagan sa acads (academic bombardment), heto, busy na naman ang Cadet Corps sa paglilinis ng kwarto, pagsa-shine ng lahat ng sapatos pati lahat ng metal parts na gagamitin sa parada at pagpe-prepare sa buong barracks para naman every is happy sa buong weekend dahil may privilege kami…

September 18, 2010, Saturday

So heto na nga, Sabado na. Barracks and Ranks Inspection na naman, pagkatapos, Testimonial Parade and review para sa bisita. Normal routine na sa mga Kadete ang Parade and Review every Saturday.

So after ng Parade, vaultfiles nag 60- 60 (ngmamadali) ang lahat para magbihis ng Dress White para sa noon mess. Muntik ko ng makalimutan MOG (Messenger Of the Guard) pala ako. Ito yung mga duty guards na nag i-entertain ng mga bisita sa MAGILAS Visitors Lounge, Lopez Hall at PMA Museum at nag-eexplain sa kanila kung may mga tanong sila about sa Academy or may hinahanap silang kadete. So excuse ako sa noon mess at dumiretso na ako sa MAGILAS Visitors Lounge. Kasama ng ibang MOG, doon lang kami patayu-tayo, palakad-lakad. Tapos lilipat na naman sa Lopez Hall.

After noon, may mga bisita nang pumasok at ngtatanong, so ini-entertain naman naming nang maayos. Kamay, Ngiti, Bati ‘ika nga.

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FINAL THOUGHTS:

Again, thank you for making 2017 possible , PMG Readers! 2018 will be so much fun with our growing community, thank you! I promise that I will continue giving you love posts to read, as long as there is One Soul left to read my entries, I will continue this quest of being a PROUD MILITARY GIRL. Thank you guys! I love you all! Happy New Year!

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